Investing in What Truly Matters: A Reflection on Choices and Values

I suppose the "Uncle John’s Bathroom Reader" and my failure to buy a Patek Philippe watch make an unusual combination of things with which to start a faith column, but, nonetheless, here we are. Recently, while flipping through Volume 33 of said "Bathroom Reader," I stumbled upon a section dedicated to luxury watches. It stated, "Patek Philippe is probably the most prestigious brand of watches," with prices ranging from around $20,000 for the least expensive model to over $1 million for the most extravagant.

At this point, you might be tempted to label me a prosperity gospel preacher, but nothing could be further from the truth. I have spent nearly three decades faithfully pastoring a midsize church in a small town, earning a modest salary. So why lament my failure to buy one of the world’s most prestigious luxury watches? To understand this, we must journey back to the late 1980s, a time filled with great music, the Reagan revolution, and my early days as a goldsmith.

A Missed Opportunity

In my late teens, I was hired as an apprentice at a local luxury jewelry store, where I had the unique opportunity to purchase items at just a few dollars above store cost. Among the breathtaking items they carried were Patek Philippe watches. They were well within my financial reach; I could have saved up and bought one for just over a thousand dollars. However, as a 17-year-old kid from a small town, I prioritized custom rims for my brand-new, ice blue Honda CRX instead.

In hindsight, I have no idea where that car and those rims are today. I sold the car when my wife became pregnant with our first child, and the $2,000 custom rims went with it. While I enjoyed them for a few years, they eventually faded into memory. Had I made a different choice and invested in that Patek Philippe watch, it would be worth around $40,000 today.

The Real Investments

However, this column is not about watches; it’s about the importance of investing in what truly matters. While I may have missed the luxury watch, I made wise decisions that have yielded far greater returns. I invested in my relationship with Christ, spending countless hours in church, reading my Bible, memorizing Scripture, praying, and serving. This investment has paid exorbitant dividends, keeping me away from harmful choices like alcohol, drugs, and infidelity.

I have lived a fulfilling life, traveled extensively, and have few regrets. I also invested in my family and friends. I am blessed with an amazing wife, three wonderful children, and lifelong friends. The joy I experience from these relationships far outweighs any material possession.

Health and Well-Being

Moreover, I made a conscious effort to invest in my health. I took martial arts, earned a black belt, and remained active in athletics. I prioritize nutritious food choices and maintain a disciplined fitness regimen. As a result, at 55 years old, I am on zero medication and can physically do nearly anything I desire.

Financial Wisdom

Financially, I invested in stocks, real estate, and savings, while also focusing on debt reduction. Despite a modest salary, my wife and I have been debt-free for many years, allowing us the freedom to make choices that enhance our quality of life.

The Wisdom of Solomon

Solomon wisely stated in Proverbs 15:17, "Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith." This proverb illustrates that wealth without love and joy is hollow. A family may be financially affluent but emotionally bankrupt, while a modest family rich in love and happiness is truly wealthy.

The Essence of True Wealth

What we invest in truly matters for the long term. If you possess immense wealth but lack joy and fulfillment, you are impoverished in spirit. Conversely, if you make wise decisions that lead to a loving family, good health, and stable finances, you are wealthy beyond measure, regardless of your material possessions.

Conclusion: Make Good Decisions

In the end, the choices we make define our lives far more than any luxury item ever could. While I may have missed out on a luxury watch, I have gained immeasurable wealth in relationships, health, and spiritual fulfillment. The key takeaway is simple: make good decisions that enrich your life and the lives of those around you.